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Okay, everyone. I've got something I want you all to read and give your opinions on. This was posted to the group by long-time volunteer YukiFeline, and I feel it should be explored and discussed further. Now, I don't want you all saying "Oh that lady is just a drama/attention whore". I want you all to really give me your full opinions, and what you would do if you were faced with this. I'd like you to come up with some ways you could possibly help someone like this.
~Ke

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YukiFeline-

Hello group. I have an event I feel I should share.

I was sent to the hospital due to a mental break down (i'm fine now, i promise) and had the opportunity of meeting a woman who claimed to being a rape victim. Here is her story...

"I currently live with my uncle, which is really hard because I've been having suppressed memories about him tying me up to a wooden board like the medieval days and molesting me in front of people when I was young"

Now, if you're like me and have white knights syndrome, you'd feel bad for this girl right?

She later claimed to be a sex addict (which most of you know, when one is molested, sex is all they know when thy grow up) however, she got to the point where she contradicted her story from "consensual" to "rape" and also, it got to the point I was told so many stories that none of it was believable. The conclusion I came up with after her story of how she "DECIDED" to be a lesbian is... she truly just wanted attention and somebody to care about her.

Honestly, I know its harsh but people like that either need to burn or need help. Because of people like that, homosexuality, rape victims, and sex addiction is not taken as serious as it should be.

Does anyone have an alternative theory or hypothesis?

ps. I'm sorry for the rage. gay rights and being a victim are two things I relate to and to have somebody crap on that urks me.
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This group is for those who have been victims of sexual assault, rape, or any other form of abuse. Anyone is welcome to join as the purpose of this group is to love and help <3
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princesskittehh Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2016   Filmographer
Am here to listen for anyone who needs help. ♥
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Presumptuous-Cat Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If anyone needs help, please note me..
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AlexMinazukiBC6 Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2015
Hey there, an 20 year old man tried to have buttsex with me via Notes without permission (which is wrong cuz i'm 16 and still an minor)
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Silentscreamsfromwit Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
If I'm honest it has happend to me to many times to count. I'm usually not this open about wat happend but I feel I can trust u guys.
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